Believe me, I get how crazy that sounds! Bare with me though. I have three kids and in the last 10 years I've felt pregnant about 80% of the time. I know that doesn't add up, but that's how I feel. Maybe that's because I often feel like I give about 80% of me to the kids! I suppose I miss that intense connection that once came from sharing my life with only ONE soul mate. Today, there's 4 human beings wanting my attention and without intending it, those three gorgeous little kids of mine WIN OUT! I find there's less and less husband and wife time and plenty of time spent talking kids, cleaning up after kids, shopping for kids, bonding with kids, dealing with kids... enjoying the kids. Now, that in itself is a BLESSING! It's all I've ever dreamed of, but that doesn't mean there's balance. And if there's one thing I strive for that's balance. So I ask how do I balance a romantic one-on-one life with my husband, a loving relationship with ME, and a fulfilling mother and child bond with three kids?
Please chime in!
Is there really a secret to having it all... especially that romantic spontaneous relationship that ignited the relationship of two people who eventually become a mommy and daddy team?
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